Man or boy
Man or boy?
It all started at a dinner, where I met my closest friend. And while going down memory lane, she asked me what at that time seemed like the easiest and silliest question anyone could ever ask - "Why are men so hard to understand?"
"No, we aren't, are we?" Then, it hit me. Why are we so hard to understand? I mean a man is simple; he never likes to make life complicated. Then, why is it that women can't seem to understand the rituals that make us what we are... men. And it is on that note that this article came to be. So, for all you women who want to know how to handle the things we do without screaming or discussing it with others, here are some simple ways. First of all, men don't like doing three things — we don't like sad, serial-like movies; we don't like waiting at the beauty parlour; and we mostly do not like too much discussion about our future. But even though we don't like them, we endure them most times, simply because it makes you happy. So it's about time you return the favour.
First of all, watch a brutal action or horror film with us and hold on to our arm when you're scared. It makes us feel like Hercules and protecting you will become priority number one.
Second, sit down and play video games with us even though you don't know how to play and don't like them. Tell us you'd like to learn how to play and tell us it's because you think you can beat us later... this makes us feel like we're actually imparting knowledge when we teach you... also pay attention to the care we'll take to save you when you're in danger.
And finally, take some interest in our cars and bikes. Ask us how the engine works and if we're going to modify it. This makes us think that we have the best woman on this planet, simply because she really cares about the things we care about. So there you have it and even though this might sound really childish, remember that most men are still children at heart. So, give it a shot, you might like the male side of life.
It all started at a dinner, where I met my closest friend. And while going down memory lane, she asked me what at that time seemed like the easiest and silliest question anyone could ever ask - "Why are men so hard to understand?"
"No, we aren't, are we?" Then, it hit me. Why are we so hard to understand? I mean a man is simple; he never likes to make life complicated. Then, why is it that women can't seem to understand the rituals that make us what we are... men. And it is on that note that this article came to be. So, for all you women who want to know how to handle the things we do without screaming or discussing it with others, here are some simple ways. First of all, men don't like doing three things — we don't like sad, serial-like movies; we don't like waiting at the beauty parlour; and we mostly do not like too much discussion about our future. But even though we don't like them, we endure them most times, simply because it makes you happy. So it's about time you return the favour.
First of all, watch a brutal action or horror film with us and hold on to our arm when you're scared. It makes us feel like Hercules and protecting you will become priority number one.
Second, sit down and play video games with us even though you don't know how to play and don't like them. Tell us you'd like to learn how to play and tell us it's because you think you can beat us later... this makes us feel like we're actually imparting knowledge when we teach you... also pay attention to the care we'll take to save you when you're in danger.
And finally, take some interest in our cars and bikes. Ask us how the engine works and if we're going to modify it. This makes us think that we have the best woman on this planet, simply because she really cares about the things we care about. So there you have it and even though this might sound really childish, remember that most men are still children at heart. So, give it a shot, you might like the male side of life.
From HINDU - metro
posted by Known Stranger at 5:22 PM
7 Comments:
Why are men so hard ?
its simple reakky
its the blood gushing to the tip
Hmm, my view on what men dont like
1.you said men "don't like sad, serial-like movies." I disagree coz I know many guys who cry more on watching such films than girls do.
2. you said-"we don't like waiting at the beauty parlour." ofcourse, nowadays men are inside beauty parlours manicuring or pedicuring. in case you do not know, some of them are regular visitors to kaya skin clinic and other beauticians to rid of warts from their face. so ofcourse, they do not wait outside. They rather spend time inside (yes, macho men like John Abraham and Hrithik Roshan are included).
3.You said- "we mostly do not like too much discussion about our future. But even though we don't like them, we endure them most times, simply because it makes you happy." Ofcourse, men would not like to think of their future, the thought of responsibilities make most boys weak in the knees. and anyways, future means a lot to most girls (mind u, i said many and not all. trust me, i am no feminist) because they get married, leave their homes and parents behind to spend their lives with so-called 'children' like you.
In return for all this-many men eye other women freely even when he is with his wife/girlfriend and when they get caught they simply come up with excuses like -"we are still children at heart." yeah right, thats why you still eye different coloured eye candies.
sounding so violent am i-dont worry i have equal amount of female and the message is the same for them too. Grow up BOY.
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife!
The only difference between men and boys is the price of their toys.
example: cars
lolz lolz i cant do any of the three :P
first of all, awesome entry!
second of all, don't generalise.
:) and when you do all these things and still they refuse to think u r awsome.... then what do we do!!!
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